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aloha family,
the car that was moved from the lighthouse...how was that handled? it seems that what happened is that the car was moved to the land next door~to chad and jen's land (the people whose land was vandalized by the iced kids)...
i talked to jen today, after hearing from two others in town that chad was unhappy with finding this junked car on is land, and she said that chad has taken his backhoe (or something) and moved it, but there remains some discontent because "someone" put a junked car onto his land.
and guess what, family? in lieu of any person in particular to address this with personally, the negative feeling is coming to the family...
so, this is a call out~if there is a contact person who we know moved the car~in the family or hired out~who can be brought in here (in person or by phone) to bring a bit of peace and understanding for what was likely a mistake or misunderstanding, please please please let me know. even just someone to talk with chad, get things clear, and say, "i''m sorry" would be helpful. like i said, car's been moved, but unpleasant feelings remain, and we don't need or want that~for chad and jen, or for the family.
mahalo family,
karin
the car that was moved from the lighthouse...how was that handled? it seems that what happened is that the car was moved to the land next door~to chad and jen's land (the people whose land was vandalized by the iced kids)...
i talked to jen today, after hearing from two others in town that chad was unhappy with finding this junked car on is land, and she said that chad has taken his backhoe (or something) and moved it, but there remains some discontent because "someone" put a junked car onto his land.
and guess what, family? in lieu of any person in particular to address this with personally, the negative feeling is coming to the family...
so, this is a call out~if there is a contact person who we know moved the car~in the family or hired out~who can be brought in here (in person or by phone) to bring a bit of peace and understanding for what was likely a mistake or misunderstanding, please please please let me know. even just someone to talk with chad, get things clear, and say, "i''m sorry" would be helpful. like i said, car's been moved, but unpleasant feelings remain, and we don't need or want that~for chad and jen, or for the family.
mahalo family,
karin
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Re: family~loose ends in hawi...
Fri, February 15, 2008 - 12:37 AMOkay, I definitely don't represent anybody but myself, but I am very sorry for this.
Although I did not have anything to do with the towing of the car, I was impressed that somebody who was himself so strapped for cash paid money out of his own pocket to get the vehicle professionally towed out . Unfortunately, during the towing efforts, the vehicle got stuck in the mud, blocking a commonly used access route, and then I don't know exactly what happened. What I heard-- second or third hand-- is that the tow company gave their word that they would come back for the vehicle and tow it out later, when the road conditions improved. But by the time they did, somebody else had already moved the vehicle back to the spot where it had been originally towed from! But I do understand the tow company did fulfill their promise and got the vehicle out once and for all.
So, what I do know is there was more than one party pushing and pulling the vehicle around. I'm very sorry for any private property infringement, and that the vehicle blocked an access route for as long as it did, and, again speaking for myself only, I learned a huge lesson from this whole disaster. This has proven once again the old adage that the way to hell is paved with good intentions. It also goes to show that if rainbow is to continue on this island for another year, we need to completely rethink our process, we need to learn to be humble, and to admit our errors, and there were many.
I don't know how to make things right with Chad or anybody else who was involved and felt something was not right. To them I want to say: You are not alone! Even many of us who love rainbow gatherings with all our hearts felt exactly the same way. This year was blighted by heedlessness and recklessness, and at points-- speaking only for myself again-- I was embarrassed to have anything at all to do with the Hawai'i Rainbow Family.
We will talk about all of this at our next council, and I will pass on Chad's message.
Aloha,
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Re: family~loose ends in hawi...
Fri, February 15, 2008 - 12:21 PMthanks, benjamin, this seems to fill in some blanks, and i will share it with chad and jen.
what comes to me as a good lesson on this one, to be remembered, is the follow up component~as a family checking in with the towing company to ensure the job was complete. because what it sounds like reading your version and comparing it with jen's is that there wasn't any follow up in terms of the car getting moved again, it was left in the spot it got stuck, access route on chad's land, and chad finally dealt with it. i will of course share this with jen and chad (and the others in the hawi community who are interested in this, and believe me, there is some curiosity up here) to see if this resonates for them.
other brothers and sisters~i encourage you to also share here anything you can to fill in the blanks, to share your sentiments, because a collective flow of positive vibrations and taking responsibility for even our unintended mistakes is energy i can tangibly share with this community, and in the ethers the positive vibes will reach them as well. the more love we send out, the more love comes back.
benjamin, i also appreciate your willingness to 'make things right' for them however possible, and will get back to you on that. my sense is that if enough family flows in the same love energy as you on this and i can share that, it may be enough. perhaps a step further to sending a card with a heartfelt sentiment...again, i'll get back to you on it.
loving you family!
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Re: family~loose ends in hawi...
Wed, February 20, 2008 - 7:12 PMaloha benjamin and others...
i talked with forrest, my friend in town, and explained what you (benjamin) shared with me. he was very happy to hear it, and thought chad and jen would be too. we talked about your idea of making things feel right for chad and jen, and he was really supportive of a simple card with a note explaining the story, and some loving signatures from family.
i have an address, which i keep forgetting to have with me when near the computer (which is why it's taken me so long to write), so if you can get the card going and ask some loving family to sign and show support to chad and jen and their experience, that would be great, and i will get the address to you.
thank you for your love and concern, benjamin, and to others following this story and giving their love to our hawi brother and sister.
aloha family...
karin -
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Re: family~loose ends in hawi...
Mon, March 3, 2008 - 4:41 PMaloha~~
finally i'm getting back to you with an address to send a card to jen & chad. you can send it to:
jen & chad
c/o forrest arnold
po box 307
kapa'au, hi 96755
thanks again for your attention and love to the hawi/kapa'au brothers and sisters!!
in love and light,
karin
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